” Try to redirect his energy in a positive way that encourages him to keep working for you.As long as he’s working for you, you’re still in control.Essentially, guys across America are saying, “Hey, babe.You’re not important enough to get five minutes of phone time.If five minutes on the phone is too much work for him, it speaks for itself.
Writing flirty or dirty notes to be provocative and naughty. The next thing you know, you’re having a vicious argument that could have been easily avoided in person. Essentially, texting is emailing for the lazy, illiterate and mobile.
Understand this about men: they will usually do the least that they can to maintain their relationship. But here’s the real problem: there are women everywhere who are complete suckers for this crap.
So if he can text you at 11pm on Friday night after a week of silence and charm you with something like: “UR 2 hott! Maybe it’s a low self esteem thing, but as long as some desperate girl lets him get away with it, he’ll always have a low-maintenance sexual outlet.
Over the last several months, I have dated 3 men (not simultaneously) that I met on
They all seem to have one thing in common: after 2-4 dates, they like to touch base with me during the week by sending me text messages to my cell phone!
That’s why you always have to watch both his actions his words and pace yourself before you jump in too deep with a new guy.